Sunday. 10pm. Flat in a city your parents have never visited.
You picture them on the phone trying to spell the name of your local bank.
If you died tomorrow, your parents do not know which country to start in.
UK savings, a current account in the country you live in, tax codes in two systems, the residency advisor's number, the flat lease. Two probate offices on two sides waiting for paperwork in two languages. Your family back home has no map.
What only you know
Most households quietly run on one person.
The portal login for the UK offshore banking facility
International tax file reference codes and online access links
Contact information for the local immigration and residency advisor
The entry PIN for the domestic storage unit in the home nation
Administrative access codes for the overseas property rental portal
Instructions for managing and converting foreign currency cash balances
None of this is in a drawer. None of it is in your partner's phone. It is all in your head.
If you went silent tomorrow
Here is what unravels.
Week 1
Your family back home cannot name your local bank, your address, or the consulate to ring first.
Month 1
A local utility is cut. Nobody in the country can prove who they are to you. The flat starts to look abandoned.
Month 6
Two probate offices on two sides ask each other for translated paperwork that does not yet exist. Nothing moves.
Year 1
Cross-border probate stalls. UK savings, local salary, the flat, the tax refunds, all frozen in a currency nobody back home holds.
By next month, your partner is firefighting. Not grieving. Firefighting.
How it works
One tap a month. Until the day you stop tapping.
Grace period
30 days to reply
We try email, text, and a phone reminder. You log in once, everything resets.
Alex, friend since uni
Witness 1, confirmed
Priya, family
Witness 2, confirmed
Recipient
Your family back home
That is it. Six pounds a month.
One tap. Two witnesses. Delivery only when both confirm.
What actually happens
Your partner gets exactly what they need.
UK and local bank account details
Tax reference numbers on both sides
Local residency advisor and solicitor
Lease, storage unit, and currency account
And it is six pounds a month.
Two witnesses have confirmed. Here is what your family back home asked us to share with you.
Open securely
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Take your time. Samaritans 116 123 if you need someone now.
What you actually do
Ten minutes today. One tap a month. That is the whole thing.
- Step 1
Write what your family back home would need
UK and local bank logins, both tax reference numbers, the residency advisor, where the lease is. Short notes work fine, in English.
- Step 2
Name two friends as witnesses
One at home, one where you live now. If we ever stop hearing from you, we ask them separately to confirm.
- Step 3
One tap a month, that is the whole job
We send one short email a month. You tap once. If you stop tapping, we wait, try again, and only then send the cross-border pack to the people you named.
The price
£6 a month.
Less than a gym you don't go to. Cheaper than the streaming bundle you forgot you have.
- Netflix Basic£8 / mo
- A gym membership£35 / mo
- Spotify Premium£11 / mo
- Three coffees£10 / mo
- If You Die£6 / mo
Cancel any time. If you ever do, your messages are wiped within 30 days.
Doing this for the whole household? Family plan, £18/mo for five.
What we never do
Trust is the product. These four lines are why.
We never read your words
No human reads what you write. No AI is trained on it. Encrypted at rest, the honest version.
Two humans must confirm
We do not deliver on a missed email. Two witnesses you named must, separately, attest. No exceptions.
We never sell your data
Not anonymised, not aggregated, not under any future ownership change. It is in the terms in black and white.
We never assume your beliefs
Religion, culture, what you call the people you named. You write the words. We deliver them, unedited.